Social networking

I've been a facebook user for a couple of years now. I signed on relatively early, and recall wondering what the big deal was. Little did I know.

Since then, I have witnessed friends become engaged on facebook, found long lost pals from the days of old, connected with family members that I never get to see in person, seen first glimpses of babies near and dear to my heart, videos of friend's kids dancing and taking steps, silly drunken photos of my friends having a wee bit too much fun on the weekends, and differing views of weddings I attended, or was too busy being a bridesmaid to catch all the fun. These have all been wonderful things.

I have also seen people accidentally humiliate themselves because they didn't realize their actions would be posted, seen photos of people in situations that I am sure they didn't expect others to see, been "friended" by people from the old days that I didn't care much for to begin with (and vice-versa), and witnessed fights and jabs of high school proportions .... sometimes I can't believe what people will do online! I mean, didn't we all grow up and move past childish gossip and mean-spiritedness? And, since when was I friends with someone who treated me terribly in the past?

I have struggled with my connection to facebook. In the end, I have chosen to keep my account because the good outweighs the bad. I've found ways to integrate it into my professional life, and well ... I don't know how I would conduct my social life without it! It's funny how soon it becomes a part of your routine. As long as each user is well aware of their privacy options, and make sure that they cover their tracks to keep what they let others see in their control, I think it is a lot of fun. And, I also learned that the "remove friend" option is always a possibility. Whether you just can't stand to hear what someone is making for dinner yet again, or you find yourself reliving memories that you didn't want to in the first place, always remember that you are in control!!!